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Untangling the Mess

I love accessories!  Earrings are my favorite baubles, but I also like bracelets and necklaces.  I have several vertical-style organizers in my dressing room that help me wrangle my necklaces but every now and then, usually when I am trying to take one out, two or more of my necklaces get tangled.  It is frustrating …

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Do You Want to Be Well?

Note:  Parts of this blog post are based on actual occurrences and some are based upon my own imagination.  Names and specific circumstances have been changed to protect the subjects’ identities. “Do you want to be well?”  This may sound like a strange question because who would not want to be well?  Sadly, there are …

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The Problem with Pretending

Have you seen the very popular television show called, “The Masked Singer?”  It is now in its fifth season and boasts a viewing audience of nearly six million viewers. Each week fans tune in to watch celebrities donning elaborate costumes which include ornate masks try to keep their identities hidden from a panel of celebrities …

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How Are You Using Your Stage?

I am Christian, African American woman.  I am an unconventional educator, writer, children’s book author and blogger.  I am the wife of a loving and wise man and the mother of two amazing children.  I have been blessed with several “stages” during my lifetime and I am grateful for each of them.  I do not …

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It’s Working but I Don’t Like It

I am about four few weeks in on my decision to become more disciplined in my eating and fitness habits.  I have been diligent about exercising two to four times per week, drinking more water, eating more fruits and vegetables, evaluating nutritional content in packaged foods, and significantly limiting my desserts.  I know that I …

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Ask for Help When You Need It

A few months ago, my 14-year-old daughter and I were talking, and the conversation turned toward a hypothetical scenario involving her choking at a dinner table surrounded by her friends.  I asked her, “If you were choking, would you alert one of your friends at your table so that they could help you or get …